Golf is a game built on respect—respect for the course, fellow players, and the rules that keep everything running smoothly. Unlike other sports, there’s no referee watching your every move, so good etiquette is expected from everyone on the course.
Whether you’re a beginner or just need a refresher, these essential etiquette rules will help you play the game the right way.
Respect Tee Times—Arrive Early
Tee times aren’t just a suggestion. Arriving late doesn’t just inconvenience your group—it can throw off the schedule for the entire course.
Plan to arrive at least 30 minutes before your tee time. This gives you enough time to check in, stretch, hit a few warm-up shots, and get to the first tee without feeling rushed. If you’re running late, call the clubhouse to let them know.
No one wants to be the person jogging to the first tee, out of breath, while everyone else waits.
How Many Golf Balls Do You Really Need?
Running out of golf balls mid-round is the last thing you want. It’s always smart to have spares, but there’s no need to overload your pockets.
A good approach? Keep three to five golf balls in your bag—enough to cover a few mishits without weighing yourself down. If you’re playing a tricky course or prone to losing balls, bring a few extras so you’re always prepared.
And when a ball goes missing, don’t spend too long searching. The official rule allows three minutes to find it before taking a drop. If it’s lost, grab another and keep playing—having backups ensures you won’t slow down the round.
Keep Up the Pace—Don’t Be That Player
Slow play is one of the biggest frustrations in golf. No one likes standing around waiting for the group ahead to finish their shots.
A few ways to keep things moving:
- Be ready when it’s your turn. Think about your shot while others are playing.
- Limit practice swings. A quick rehearsal is fine, but too many slows everything down.
- If you’re having a rough hole, pick up your ball. Not every shot needs to be played out.
If you see a faster group behind you, let them play through. It’s a simple courtesy that makes the game better for everyone.
Respect the Course—Fix Your Divots and Ball Marks
A well-maintained course makes for a better round, and that responsibility falls on every golfer.
If your ball leaves a mark on the green, fix it. If you take a divot from the fairway, replace it. And when you exit a bunker, rake it smooth.
It takes just a few seconds, but it makes a huge difference for the players behind you.
Silence and Stillness Matter
Golf requires focus. There’s nothing more distracting than someone chatting, shuffling clubs, or moving while another player is swinging.
Stay quiet when someone is hitting, and if you’re walking, pause until the shot is complete. If you’re using a phone, keep it on silent.
And where you stand matters, too. Avoid standing directly behind someone’s ball or in their line of sight. If you’re unsure, just ask: “Am I good here?” It’s a simple way to show respect.
Handling the Flagstick Like a Pro
Since the rule change allowing players to putt with the flag in or out, handling the flagstick properly has become part of good etiquette.
- If someone asks for it to be removed, lay it down gently—don’t drop it on the green.
- When holding it, stand to the side, out of view of the player putting.
- Be mindful of shadows—don’t let yours cross their putting line.
Small details like this make the game more enjoyable for everyone.
Keep Your Cool—Temper Tantrums Don’t Belong Here
Golf can be frustrating. You’re going to hit bad shots. You’re going to miss putts. That’s part of the game.
But throwing clubs, swearing loudly, or slamming your bag? That’s bad etiquette. It disrupts others, damages the course, and, frankly, makes you look bad.
Instead, take a deep breath, reset, and focus on the next shot. Even the best golfers in the world hit terrible shots—how you handle them is what matters.
Cart Etiquette—Yes, There Are Rules
Golf carts make getting around the course easier, but they can also be a problem when used carelessly.
- Follow cart path rules—some courses require carts to stay on designated paths near greens and tees.
- Avoid driving on wet or soft areas to prevent damaging the turf.
- Park smart—don’t leave your cart in the middle of play. Keep it off to the side so you’re not in the way.
Walking? Same rules apply. Be mindful of where you place your bag, and don’t leave it in a spot that forces you to backtrack.
Respect Everyone—Fellow Players and Staff
Golf is as much about sportsmanship as it is about skill. Treat your playing partners with respect, acknowledge good shots, and keep negativity in check.
And don’t forget about the course staff. The grounds crew works hard to keep the course in great shape, and marshals are there to ensure smooth play. A simple “thank you” goes a long way.
Play the Right Way
Good etiquette isn’t about being overly strict—it’s about making the game more enjoyable for everyone. When you respect the rules, the course, and the people around you, golf is a much better experience.
Follow these guidelines, and you’ll not only improve your own game, but you’ll earn the respect of fellow golfers, too.
